I am having exactly the same problem as
http://forums.adobe.com/message/4681087
except mine occurs with AEM CS5 on OS X 10.8.
I use Extension Manager 5.0.3.4 on OS X 10.6.8 to create the .zxp package. This package installs fine on 10.5, 10.6 and 10.7. However, when installing on 10.8 (also with Extension Manager 5.0.3.4), I get the error
"The file 'Macintosh HD:Users:username:Library:Caches:TemporaryItems:
myPkg_mxi:myPlugin.InDesignPlugin:Resources' is missing. The extension
will not be installed."
It looks like the symbolic link is flattened (badly).
Is anyone having this problem? Perhaps my .mxi is coded incorrectly for Mountain Lion? Does this line look wrong:
<file source="myPlugin.InDesignPlugin" destination="$indesign/Plug-Ins/myFolder/"
platform="mac" file-type="plugin" />
Any help would be greatly appreciated. TIA
Gary